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 How To Jump Start Your Love Life The short answer is to stop worrying about it. Let yourself off the hook. Relieve the pressure and next thing you know the whole thing has become much easier. There are a couple of ways to do this in practice. 1) Pretend you have dates. The human mind is a powerful thing. Your whole body will weirdly believe that which your brain only pretends to believe. And when you believe it, the rest of the world will believe it and then suddenly you are a Datable Person. Make up blind dates to tell people about. Bring mysterious members of the opposite sex to parties and be vague about what your relationship is. (As one of my friend's has started repeating to herself, "Hello, I'm virtual girl. Welcome to my reality.") As a Person With Dates, the real dates (that people will suddenly be asking you out on, or else setting you up on) will be more fun, and less pressure-filled. 2) I'm not as big on the second option, but it seems to work for some people. Tell yourself you're not going to even try to date for 6 months. Find new friends, solidify your old friendships, get a new hobby, but no dating. Forget it. Not even if Brad Pitt himself asks you out. You will soon find yourself sparklingly witty at all gatherings because you no longer care what happens. Brad Pitt will indeed soon ask you out. - Back Duplication or reproduction of any use of these articles without permission is subjected to punishable by law. Please contact our webmaster for any questions. |
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