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 But, Girls, This Doesn't Give You The Right To Be Psycho Fine, you need constant feedback and constant attention. The boy in your life should accept this. But that doesn't mean you actually get to throw fits in front of his friends and family. Let the definition of a "fit" in this scenario be anything you do where his friends and family know how cranky you are. Crankiness is a special, private thing that should be saved up just for your loved one, ok? Another issue, of course, is jealousy. Jealousy is something that you're stuck with, and I don't think it's an unreasonable emotion to have. In many cases being jealous is the only nice thing to do--makes the other person feel important. But you just can't go overboard with jealousy, and you really just can't act on it. Going overboard means being jealous of every single person he ever sees or talks to--male or female--except for you. Identify just who you're jealous of--and stick to it. (Personally, ex-girlfriends make me crazy while current flirtations don't bother me at all.) Acting on it means expecting him to seriously change his behaviour to accomodate your jealousy. You may expect little changes, maybe--being extra affectionate with you when the two of you are around someone who stresses you out, for example. But demands that he completely ax that person from his life are not acceptable. (You are perfectly within your rights to ask that she not be invited to your wedding, however.) - Back Duplication or reproduction of any use of these articles without permission is subjected to punishable by law. Please contact our webmaster for any questions. |
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